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The baby's parents would undoubtedly be
stressed out when the baby is crying and screaming
from colic. It is a parent's natural instinct to
try to make the baby comfortable and the parent
would be worried and stressed when the parent's
effort fail to stop the crying. This is made worse
and more challenging if the parent is already tired
and frustrated; and can introduce significant
tension in the parent-parent and parent-child
relationship. As such, parents should seek help and
advice to cope with the problems caused by colic.
If the parent is too tired to take care of a crying
child, it is best to get someone else to take over
watching for the baby. If there is no one available
to take over, the parent should put the baby down in
a safe place that does not require immediate
supervision and walk away for a while to some nearby
place to get some relief from the stress. Crying by
itself will not harm the baby and walking away for a
while would be overall more positive than to have a
frustrated parent trying to comfort an irritable
baby. Also, if the parent is already frustrated, the
baby can pick up the emotion from the parent and
make matters worse. On the other hand, parents
should not worry about spoiling the baby. It is ok
to respond every time the baby cries. If the baby
has colic, it is probably more important to soothe
the baby and reduce any discomfort rather than worry
about the baby being spoilt.
Since it is important for the parent to get some
time off for themselves, the parent should arrange
for someone to take over periodically. The best
people to do this is the partner, a close friend or
a relative. Taking short breaks of an hour or two
will do the parent and the parent-child relationship
a world of good. The parent should make sure that
this time off is used to de-stress and relax instead
of doing other things like house chores. Some good
suggestions include taking a quick nap, reading a
book or simply sitting alone in the garden.
The baby's parents should also get emotional support
from friends who have been through the experience of
taking care of a baby suffering from colic. If
possible, the parents should join an online support
forum or a local support group where they can share
and talk about the problem. Besides getting new tips
that may help, the parents can also get
encouragement knowing that there are other real
people who are also facing the same problems.
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